How Does a Parisienne Do Kink? Vogue Investigates

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Walking down the streets of Paris, you would never think that you are in a country renowned for its sexual freedom. Denim on denim, oversize coats, Stan Smiths– androgyny, if anything, is the national uniform, and any parlay into stilettos or mini skirts is generally regarded as vulgaire. And yet, the French culture is swarming with historical and cinematographic references that convey an exceptionally liberal sexual identity, from Marquis de Sade (from whose name is derived the term “sadism”), to cult classic films like Les Amants (The Lovers), to notorious politician Dominique Strauss-Kahn (“DSK”), now internationally infamous for his sexual exploits. But it’s not that Paris hides its relationship to experimental sexuality: It’s less “seedy underbelly,” more “open secret.” This is a world open to anybody who is willing to give it a try, starting with the various libertine clubs scattered all over the city, the most famous one being Les Chandelles, a Parisian institution known as the regular haunt of numerous celebrities, writers, and politicians. It’s a mysterious and compelling subculture, complete with its own behavioral and sartorial codes, and I’ll admit it: I’m curious.

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The Single Girl’s Wardrobe Essentials for Spring

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Parisian Yummy Mummies Have It Down: A Guide to Chic Child Rearing

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It seems that French parenting, just like everything else stemming from this part of the world, is having a moment. Glancing at the endless “be more French” baby books lining airport kiosks, you would think that French women have discovered the Holy Grail of motherhood, one that miraculously transforms this scary and exhausting endeavor into an effortless exercise, one complete with calm babies, lithe bodies, sexually content husbands, and impeccable wardrobes.

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The Single Girl’s Guide to Doing Valentine’s Day Like a Parisienne

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For as long as I can remember, my sartorial choices for Valentine’s Day have involved pajamas.

I’m not talking about the beautiful silk Carine Gilson kind, worn for a séjour at Le Meurice, surrounded by rose petals and champagne. No, I’m referring to the Uniqlo single-girl variety, worn on a couch, surrounded by comfort food and Scandal.

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Slouchy, not Spandexed: How to Dress for the Gym Like a Parisienne

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A couple of months ago, my Parisian girlfriend asked me if I wanted to join a gym together. “They have a sauna and a great Sunday yoga class,” she proudly announced. A sauna— this was her selling point? I love a good spa session as much as the next girl, but what about the core classes, the abs, the cycling, the heavy lifting?

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The Parisienne Guide to Holiday Party Dressing

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“How do you dress during the holidays?” I ask a group of French girlfriends over lunch at Cojean, an overcrowded Parisian chain with green juice. “Quoi?” The confused silence that ensues makes me feel as though I just asked them how they dress to do their laundry.

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